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Smell fresh lemons in a thirty-seconds on-off cycle for fifteen minutes. I told my husband I had something to say even though I had no idea what it would be. I went right up to the first reporter I saw among many lined up to catch whatever scoop they could. I told her who I was and that I had something to say and she just brushed her hair off her face and said she wasn't on the air. She just brushed away her hair, like whatever.

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But I can't do it, I kept hearing in response, again and again. All right, I told them (and myself), I can. I didn't sleep for the next three months.