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Arjun would no longer fear killing his family and friends (and killing in general) because it dawns on him that no one will really die, anyway. All of life is a cosmic theatrical piece with Lord Krishna as the divine architect. Krishna informs Arjun that he cannot be attached to a life that does not belong to him. How can you be attached to something and claim it as yours when it is so dependent on the universe for survival? Can a human survive without oxygen? Can man survive without water? Can life itself survive without the sun? This is all nature. Man is dependent on external forces for survival, so how can we think that this body belongs to us? It belongs to that which it cannot survive without - nature. The incredible thing is that SVT has the power to help both twins. Twin B gets even more optimism, positivity, and a boost in mood. What it can do for Twin A is truly astounding: It can help her become a glass-half-full person again. It can short-circuit that runaway train of bad moods, naysaying self-talk, and unhealthy behaviors. SVT lays the tracks to get your brain back on course, creating a new confirmation bias. It transforms that pitfall thought pattern, reprograms your mantra, and makes your behaviors healthier. This article contains self-guided SVT as a tool for boosting mood. It is not a substitute for inpatient or intensive outpatient treatment when severe mental illness is present. Remember: SVT can also be used with a provider as part of an integrative treatment plan. Do you also remember the Jedi mind trick of the subconscious brain from the last article: the ability to change top-down processing?

OSA is not the only form of sleep apnoea. The following are less common, but worth mentioning and certainly worth investigating if you think one of them is affecting you. Central sleep apnoea occurs when the brain fails to send appropriate signals to the breathing muscles to maintain respiration during sleep. It's often associated with a central nervous system disease that involves a blockage or infection in the lower parts of the brain. It can also occur in neuromuscular diseases that involve the respiratory muscles - I've seen it most in patients with multiple sclerosis. Mixed sleep apnoea results from a mix of both central sleep apnoea and OSA. Usually the central sleep apnoea (which is not caused by any obstruction) is quickly followed by an airway obstruction. This is more common than central sleep apnoea, but less common than OSA. Upper airway resistance syndrome (UARS) is a term that was coined by US sleep researcher and physician Christian Guilleminault in 1993. UARS is characterized by repetitive arousals from sleep that probably result from increasing respiratory effort during narrowing of the upper airway. I trust the computer and never check whether the address I've selected is actually the person I want to mail. Often, it doesn't matter and I get funny responses back from people. But one time this simple mistake cost me $150K in business. I was working with two companies on a multi-year consulting deal. Both of my contacts had the same name, let's call them Wim. One Wim was an existing client, let's call him Wim A, and the other was a prospect, Wim B. Both guys wanted the same type of consulting for their companies. But I gave Wim A a better rate because he was a loyal customer. However, instead of sending the contract to Wim A, I sent the contract to Wim B. This time, it wasn't an innocent mistake.

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One side wins but both lose. Medicine is all about grey areas and consensus. There is seldom absolute clarity in important decisions. If things were that simple these decisions could be made with some clinical algorithm. Life is not like that. I rarely feel resentment towards relatives who insist on futile treatments that serve only to prolong their loved one's suffering. Everybody wants what is best for the patient and people's views, even if I find them bizarre and ill judged, are none the less heartfelt beliefs held in good faith. I cannot know in what furnace their ideas have been forged. Perhaps the furnace of guilt, religious conviction, poor education, an abusive past? Who knows and who are we to judge? And certainly, a lot less funny. How to Finally End Polarization(the article where I pretend to end polarization! I've hammered the nail of polarization until my right thumb is powder, but one thing I failed to mention: it's a lie that we don't enjoy polarization. Some minuses just can't become pluses. Come on--if we all hated polarization so much, it wouldn't exist at all. We wouldn't have tennis or Ping-Pong. Can we agree on that? The fact is, polarization is super fun. We love antagonism as a spectator sport, and we even like participating in it. Almost every single reality talent show has that as its principal engine.