He was one of the people I trained when I had gone to Japan. At that time I taught them everything I knew. I had given them exact ads and newsletters, and shared with them our sales tools for them to copy. He may have felt guilty that his upline wouldn't share and give back because he decided to tell me the speaker's secret. It was a brilliant marketing strategy. Japan was a very hot market and due to the speaker running illegal ads making unrealistic income testimonies, the government would no longer let any advertising into any newspapers. The top Japanese salespeople were really hurting because of this. Yet he had found a loophole. Opportunities were limited: sitters are expensive and life is overfull. A few quick drinks made Amanda shed her mom-self and connect to her sweet husband. They stayed close to home, lingering at expensive restaurants with cheap happy hours. When Amanda stopped drinking, everything had to change. Amanda could no longer switch between selves so easily. She felt awkward too--confused, sad, yearning. She needed to plan better--to seek out art museums and comedy shows, to change date night to Sunday morning, no-kid hike with time to talk and lie in the sunshine. To spend the money she once blew on cocktails on a hotel room with a view that she and her husband would only use for a few fabulous hours. If we could tell our past selves some things about dating sober, the first thing we would say is: You will be vulnerable, you will get yourself into real situations where there's nowhere to hide. But that might be the best thing that ever happened. Establish social order and convention. Be values focused.

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