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There is no right or wrong answer; For example, these are my three driving emotions and what they mean to me: I have energy to burn every day. I have an endless supply of energy for my family, my clients, my audiences and my friends. I am upbeat, positive and seek out ways to move forward. I had accepted this gig six months earlier, when it was warm and sunny. Now it's early December and I'm on a plane, mentally gone but holding on to a ticket and a change of underwear. After many hours and a few internal transfers, I realize we're going way into the Arctic Circle to a place I didn't even know you could travel to without a husky. When I get off the plane it is pitch black (it always is, I found out later). Then, when I leave the airport, my luggage is torn out of my hands by the wind-chill factor (78,965,463) and the skin on my face is ripped off. It's like having dermabrasion with a chainsaw. The town they take me to is not made up of cute, white clapboard houses but is a hard-core industrial oil/ fish refinery-looking thing that reminds me of Chernobyl. I'm placed in a minimalist hotel, and when I say that, I mean no furniture and long rooms like in The Shining. They'd given me an all-white suite with a white runway which ended in a dead plant. Did I mention that the heating didn't work and the restaurant had closed, never to be opened again? As you make these interior efforts you will no doubt hear your own thoughts tell you that what you ask is impossible, that you can't hope to succeed at separating the darkness from the light. To disarm any such disturbance in you, you need only ask yourself one thing: what else would you expect bats to tell a farmer who intends to pull down the dark and useless barn in which they live? The thought that nature does not know its own captive state any more than a barnacle on a boat knows that it can't move itself from the hull of one ship to another. Its darkened nature can only imagine freedom--never know it. But our True Nature is created to know the very movements of heaven within itself, which is why we need to discover what is working within us that has us so anchored in time and space.

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