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The energy inside her was shimmering, warm, beautiful. The peace gave rise to a certain pull, a tug, a conviction right there in the center of her chest. It was as if the spaciousness of heart itself was longing to find an expression, to connect. The nun decided it was time to leave the monastery and to head into the nearest town. She said her farewells, packed her things, and set out to share her revelation with the world, with those who needed it. The nun, beaming in her sublime state, walked until she found the perfect place to begin--an open-air bazaar. Only, having spent so long cloistered in the monastery, she felt jarred by the hustle and aggression of this place. One man knocked right into her as he passed by without stopping to apologize. Another man aggressively catcalled her. And while she was trying to shake off that experience, someone else told her to smile. This is especially true when the resilient movement is able to extend through the top of the head. At these moments the conventional sense of self begins to dissolve, and a more expanded sense of identity appears to fill the void left by the small self's vacancy. PRACTICE The Resilient Flow of Breath It may be easier to experience the breath moving resiliently through your whole body if you begin by lying down on your back on a soft surface. Rest your hands on your belly with your palms down, one on top of the other. Depending on the relative length of your arms and torso, one hand may completely cover the other, or the fingers of one hand may barely be touching the other. Find the hand placement that's the most relaxed and comfortable for you. Begin by simply observing your breath through bringing your awareness to the sensations of touch and movement. Don't feel that you need to change your pattern of breath in any way.

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