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I am not sure that I agree with that doctrine, but from where we are in our discussion, let's go with it. As we know, Aspies are, by nature, more egocentric than your average Joe or Jane. It's not that we think we are more valuable, important, unique - insert pompous …

This is because, in 90 days, you can make tremendous progress on any project of your choice, especially when you make it your main focus. The trick is to think of each 90-day period as the equivalent of one full year. This mindset shift alone can significantly boost your productivity …

As this study demonstrated, that's exactly what the subconscious can do. The subconscious brain has the ability to change the top-down processing that makes sense of sensory data coming in from the bottom up. If you can change top-down processing, then it's more than just a minor reframe in the …

And if a relationship is established, we may get way too attached; The new person may become a special interest - something on which to happily hyperfocus, though perhaps with preconceived plans for get-togethers, playdates, or relationship trajectories that don't accurately include the other party's perspective. Then, unable to manage the …

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Spiritual teacher Ram Dass nails it when he says, If you think you're enlightened, go spend a week with your parents. There you have it: the good, bad, and the ugly. I say, stir up that pot; To achieve emotional freedom, you want to disentangle yourself from their worst traits …

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The main qualifications are that (1) the activity is something you really enjoy and (2) there is no time frame for completion of the work other than those you set. GETTING STARTED WITH UNNECESSARY CREATING As with Idea Time, Unnecessary Creating should have a set regular time for engaging in …

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Struggling against unwanted sensations, or focusing on how our bodies don't look or perform the way we want them to, leads to unnecessary distress. Taking a judgmental approach toward our bodies can lead to shame and self-criticism, as well as problematic behaviors like avoidance, denial, or attempts to control our …

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Because you're used to doing that when you sit on the toilet, in order to release waste--there's already a built-in association. This position also opens your legs and creates and uses pelvic pressure, helping you dilate and open. Plus, when you have a contraction in this position, rocking your hips …

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YOU HAVE 5 YEARS OF TIME LEFT BEFORE YOU DIE To fully live, you need control of your time, you need free time Let's not forget though, if she was to add a life partner to the mix and later raise a family, the 27% of her time that was …

It is not just the admission that one's knowledge is always incomplete - that there is always more that one could consider - which is required, but the recognition that knowledge itself is essentially unsure, equivocal, open to question and reinterpretation. As Harvard educationalist Robert Kegan has recently reminded us in his …

You can do this with as many incidents as you want. Think of a time you felt really in love with your partner and return to it like you are back there now. See what you saw, hear what you heard and feel how good you felt. Make the colours …

A tea cure with cleavers cleanses the body be it after a long bout of medication or as a strengthening tool after virus infections. Those who are constantly battling herpes, for example, should give cleavers a try for a change. On the emotional level the herb has a cooling effect …

Here the first humans step down onto earth from a magical tree. In the old traditions the (symbolic) birds also serve as the intermediaries between humans and the gods high up in the World Tree. The mythical arrival of the first humans on earth was even tied to a tree …

The affirmation she used I wrote an affirmation for her and told her to use it and follow the lead that would come to her within the next few days. I also advised that she refrain from contacting the man she intended to marry and to just wait for inner …

Alongside this awareness of suffering's inevitability and the fundamental sameness of all people, you can choose to wish yourself well. You deserve this kindness as much as anyone. Now, put your intention for this particular practice session, whatever it is, into words. Please practise this sequence every day for a …

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Eating fruit alone ninety minutes before or after a meal is the healthiest way to incorporate it into Data-Driven Fueling. So when you order that egg-white omelet and the waiter asks whether you would like hash browns or fruit, by all means ask for the fruit;However, as I stated …

If your dream is to be healthier and/ or to lose weight, then defeatist thinking isn't going to help you convince your body and your spirit to join you in your quest to make your dream a reality. If your goal is to lose twenty-five pounds, but your thoughts veer …

Will you embrace a positive attitude if you do deviate from the Data-Driven Fueling plan at lunch or fall down a rabbit hole? As changes in thinking occur, please compliment yourself on the courage, strength, and determination you are incorporating into your life. As you commit to the Forget Dieting …